Match Spotlight “Three’s Company”

21 February 2002

Nine-year old Zachary is a special part of the local Big Brothers Big Sisters program. Most children in the program have either a Big Sister or a Big Brother. Zach has a Big Couple: Reggie and Phyllis Young of Ellsworth.


Zachary Emeigh, 9, plays Parcheesi with Phyllis and Reggie Young. The three were matched in 2000 by Big Brothers Big Sisters of Hancock and Washington Counties.
STAFF PHOTO BY JENNIFER OSBORN

The Youngs have two grown children and have been a host family for exchange students. Big Brothers Big Sisters was a way for them to stay involved with kids.

Zach was on the waiting list for nine months before he was matched with the Youngs. “Unfortunately, there’s a lot more Littles out there than there are Bigs,” said Reggie Young. Big Brothers Big Sisters made the match in November 2000 and the threesome are still having fun.

“We play basketball,” said Zach, who plays the sport at school along with soccer and baseball. They have also climbed Blue Hill Mountain and Beech Cliffs Mountain, and have driven go-carts and snowmobiles. “Zach is athletic,” said Phyllis Young. “When we get together we try to find a good balance of activities.” This means that sometimes the trio also plays Pictionary or Parcheesi, or just hangs out and cooks dinner.

According to Phyllis, people should keep in mind that there is a wide variety of children with different interests. “People have a lot to give kids. It’s really a minimal amount of time. We’ve all hit it off really great,” adds Young.

Zach’s mom, Chrystine, agrees. “He just adores them and I do too,” said Chrystine.

Emeigh decided to get her two boys involved in the program because she is a single parent. She had heard about studies showing that children who are well-adjusted have at least three adults in their lives. “It’s nice for them to have an outlet other than mom, “ adds Emeigh.

Another benefit is the boys get to see how other families work. “It has been wonderful,” Emeigh says.
       

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Original article, “For Those Who Think Young,
It’s a Rewarding Program,” by Jennifer Osborne, 2002.
Edited and reprinted with permission from
The Ellsworth American.